Malissa Bader
July 15, 1981 -
June 4, 2026
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our dear Malissa Bader, who left us on Thursday, June 4, 2026, after a long battle with cancer. Malissa was born on July 15, 1981, to Frank and Tina Kreske Bader. She graduated from Crystal Lake Central High School in Crystal Lake, IL. Malissa was a bright light in the lives of so many, especially her children, and her warmth and kindness brought joy to those around her.
She is survived by her father, Frank; stepmother, Sandra and stepfather, Craig Kreske; her spouse, John Grode (parents John and Karen Grode); her children, Johnny and Theodore all who will forever hold her in their hearts. She is also survived by her sisters, Vanessa (Ryan) Kreske Carter, Carissa Kreske, and Nicole Bader (fiancé Joseph Herff), and her stepbrother, Josh (Erica) Kreske.
She was preceded in death by her mother, Tina Cindy Kreske.
A gathering of relatives and friends honoring Malissa’s life will be held on Saturday, June 27, 2026 from 11:00 a.m. until the time of the service at 12:30 p.m. at Northport Community Baptist Church, 4609 38th Ave, Kenosha, WI.
An additional gathering of relatives and friends will be held on Saturday, July 25, 2026 from 3:30 p.m. until the time of the service at 4:30 p.m. at The Evangelical Free Church Crystal Lake, 575 E Crystal Lake Ave, Crystal Lake, IL.
Memorial services will be held in Kenosha, WI and then Crystal Lake, IL at a later date. Those wishing to honor Malissa's life and legacy may do so through a monetary gift to help support her children. Your generosity is greatly appreciated. Contributions can be made through her GoFundMe page: Malissa's GoFundMe Page.
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Charles at IntelPosted on:
June 13, 2026My condolences Frank and to Melissa's family.
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Jennifer FelderPosted on:
June 10, 2026There are simply no words that can ease the pain of losing a child. My heart is heavy as I think of my coworker, Frank, and his family during this unimaginable time.
Please know that you are surrounded by thoughts, prayers, and support from all of us. May you find strength in the love of family and friends, comfort in cherished memories, and peace in knowing that your daughter will always be remembered and forever loved.
Sending my deepest condolences and keeping your family in my prayers.
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Amy Bader StonrPosted on:
June 10, 2026We will miss our dear niece, Malissa. Uncle Gene and Aunt Amy
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Ann JerryPosted on:
June 9, 2026We send our condolences to the Grode family for their loss.
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Raul & Betty De La RuaPosted on:
June 9, 2026To my dear brother Frank and his family, Please accept my heartfelt condolences. We are keeping Malissa, her children and the entire family in our prayers. May The Lord welcome her into His Kingdom and grant her eternal rest with no more pain nor suffering. May our Lord bring comfort, strength and increased faith during this difficult time. May the eternal light shine on her, and may she rest in peace. In Jesus name we pray. Amen
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Nazia MuqeemPosted on:
June 9, 2026Indeed, we belong to God, and indeed, to Him we shall return."
She was a kind woman, a very good friend, she loved all kinds of people, a humanitarian, may God give her highest place in heaven, may God help her family, may god give her children and husband patience.
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Chaplain KevinPosted on:
June 8, 2026I grieve with and for the family. Malissa shared this thought with me from the Bible on my first visit... that if Heavenly Father feeds the birds who neither plant nor harvest, how much more will He care for my children and family when I am gone.
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Jim GallagherPosted on:
June 8, 2026To John and family. I pray the lord give you all strength. We cant imagine what you all are going through.
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Helen myersPosted on:
June 8, 2026May her memory be eternal 🙏 The kindest loving person. She loved her boys. Her smile will live forever 💕
