Patrick Diglio
March 18, 1950 -
August 20, 2026
With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Patrick Diglio, a beloved husband, brother, uncle, cherished friend, and unforgettable spirit, who passed away peacefully on Thursday, August 20, 2026, at Aurora Medical Center Kenosha. Patrick was born on March 18, 1950, to Clement and Mildred (Caparco) Diglio. He was a 1968 graduate of St. Anthony of Padua High School in Syracuse, New York.
On June 9, 2014, Patrick was united in marriage to Jay Herr and they were together for over 27 years. This was the heart of Patrick's life, the extraordinary love he shared with Jay. Together, they built a life filled with love, companionship, shared dreams, and countless adventures. Their partnership was one of deep understanding and devotion, and the memories they created together will forever remain a treasured part of Patrick's story.
Patrick served as the Deputy Director of Child Support Payments at Conduent, where he enjoyed a fulfilling career before retiring in 2018.
Patrick truly knew how to enjoy life. Pat and Jay created many wonderful memories together during trips to the RIU Palace, Playa del Carmen, Mexico, the Dominican Republic, Jamaica, and other destinations. Patrick had a great appreciation for good food, especially seafood. Lobster was his absolute favorite. He loved cooking and baking... everything bagels, pizza, and chocolate chip cookies and brownies especially for Jay.
Patrick also had a creative side and found great peace in painting. It was a calming activity for him, and he especially enjoyed sharing his talent by creating paintings for friends. He loved bringing people together and took great pleasure in planning backyard parties and family gatherings, where good food, conversation, and laughter were always part of the occasion. An avid reader, Patrick seemed to have a little knowledge about everything, which lovingly earned him the reputation of being "Jeopardy smart." He was also incredibly caring and generous with his friends, always finding a way to lend a hand or be there when someone needed him.
Patrick treasured staying connected with his family and friends. Once he discovered FaceTime, everyone quickly learned that a call from Patrick could come at any time of the day. Those unexpected calls, often filled with conversation and laughter, became another special way Patrick shared himself with the people he loved. He had a special way of bringing kindness, humor, laughter, and his own unique charm wherever he went.
Patrick is survived by his husband, Jay Herr; his siblings, Clement Diglio Jr., Ann Marie (Michael) Fillinger, Lucia (Tom) Vitale, Millie (Ken) Nunneker; his sisters-in-law, Sue (Tim) Green, Linda (Ted) Voskuhl, Kathy Rudy-Herr, Kathy (Mike) Herr, Patti (Tom) Ludwig, Cindy Herr, and Debbie (Pete Guajardo) Capodarco and his brothers-in-law, Duane Herr, and Tim (Sue) Herr.
Patrick was preceded in death by his parents and many other beloved family members.
A Celebration of Life for Patrick will be held in the near future.
Patrick's family would like to extend a special thank you to the medical teams at Aurora Medical Center-Kenosha and Fresenius Kidney Care-Racine for their loving care throughout Patrick's many health challenges.
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Angela PaaschPosted on:
September 1, 2026I met Pat during my first professional internship and career. He was the most amazing mentor. He believed in me and instilled confidence, even when I started that computer on fire. Although we both decided maybe IT was not the right path for me! Beyond being a great mentor, I was lucky to be able to call Pat a friend. I’m forever grateful for all you’ve done for me! Rest easy Pat!
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Sister Maureen D'Onofrio, CSJPosted on:
August 30, 2026I met Pat while teaching First Grade at St. Anthony's in Syracuse. Pat taught Sister Carroll-Ann and myself how to ski! Pat was an absolute delight to know and super patient teaching these two nuns how to ski!! We all loved the Diglio family and when I saw his pict ure in the Syracuse paper I knew it had to be him. Prayer for ALL Pat's family and friends.
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Shelly PolgePosted on:
August 30, 2026Dear Friends, We are so very sorry to read about Pat's passing. We send our deepest sympathy for your family's loss. God Bless, Shelly and Al Polge
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Mary Ellen Shirtz,CSJPosted on:
August 30, 2026I have great memories of Pat. Although he was 2 years behind me at St Anthony’s, he was a shining star and playful presence. My heart ached when I learned of his passing.
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Angela Campolo DembroskyPosted on:
August 28, 2026Patrick lived life to the fullest. A wonderful, loving, generous, adventurous life crammed into what I consider to be a short time. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Oh the stories we can tell!
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Mike and Rosanne DempseyPosted on:
August 23, 2026Dear cousin Rest in peace. So many wonderful memories of our times at STA. Love laughter and your joy made our lives more special. I hope all the people in your family remember the kind and loving person you were. That will help heal their hearts.
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Amanda DonichPosted on:
August 23, 2026I will miss pat. I worked for him at Conduent. Every time when he walk by my workplace, he did a silly dance. He was a wonderful and funny guy.
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Christine KiddPosted on:
August 23, 2026Pat was a wonderful man. He was always so gracious. Mike and I will always appreciate being included in his wonderful parties. It is so sad such a great man is no longer here. Rest In peace. Our condolences to Jay and all Pat's family
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Gereene CallahanPosted on:
August 22, 2026Jay we are so sorry for your loss. We were so happy that you had all the years of love. You stay strong hugs
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Bill BochanPosted on:
August 22, 2026RIP Pat and sincere condolences to the Diglio Family.
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Jufiarti YanuardiPosted on:
August 22, 2026I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing you peace during this difficult time.
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Donovan ShanahanPosted on:
August 22, 2026I knew Patrick as great friend when come into pick n Save store and said hello to me. And he made me smile. He was a great person
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Ellen BothePosted on:
August 21, 2026Jay and family we are sorry for your loss! May your memories bring you comfort.
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Barbara KingPosted on:
August 21, 2026One of my favorite uncles. I’ll miss you
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Marissa KowalPosted on:
August 21, 2026Beautifully written. My deepest condolences to Jay and his entire family. I remember the very first time I met Patrick, and he immediately told me to call him “Grandpa.” He was such a sweet, warm, and genuinely person with the most beautiful soul. He had such a bubbly personality that made you feel comfortable right away.Sending so much love, comfort, and prayers to Jay and the entire family during this difficult time.
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Theresa DiglioPosted on:
August 21, 2026In Loving Memory of a Wonderful Uncle It is with heavy hearts that we say goodbye to an amazing uncle whose love, kindness, and unforgettable spirit touched the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know him He was more than an uncle-he was a source of wisdom, laughter, encouragement, and unconditional love. He had a special way of making people feel welcomed and cared for, and his presence could brighten even the hardest of days. His stories, sense of humor, generosity, and warm heart created memories that will remain with us forever. He was the kind of person who left an impression simply by being himself. He loved deeply, gave generously, and never hesitated to be there for the people he cared about. Our family was truly blessed to have him in our lives. Although our hearts are broken by his passing. we find comfort in knowing that his love and the memories we shared will never leave us. His laughter will echo in our memories, his lessons will stay in our hearts, and his love will continue through the family he cherished. Rest peacefully, Uncle. You were deeply loved. greatly admired, and will be missed more than words can express. Until we meet again, you will forever hold a special place in our hearts.
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Kristi BelcherPosted on:
August 21, 2026Patrick was such a wonderful addition to our family. I remember when Jay first introduced him to us, and it felt like he was already family by the end of breakfast. He brought so much love and joy and will be deeply missed. Hugs from Maryland
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Caren BoxwellPosted on:
August 21, 2026Oh Patrick, I’m going to miss that beautiful smile, your laughter, and your warm hugs. You were such a truly beautiful personality that I’m positive everyone who knew you will agree. May your beautiful soul rest now, this isn’t goodbye, this is see you later……Xoxo
