Sterling Brett Oliver
May 15, 2003 -
March 17, 2026
With heavy hearts, we share the passing of our beloved sweet child, Sterling Brett Oliver, on Tuesday, March 17, 2026, at the age of 22. Also known as Viviana to some friends. Sterling was born on May 15, 2003, to Edward and Lanette (Fluck) Oliver. He was a graduate of LakeView Technology Academy. He was a bright light in the lives of those who knew him, filled with creativity, quiet strength, laughter, and a beautiful spirit.
Sterling was gentle, kind, and deeply caring, with a patient and dependable nature. He had a witty sense of humor and a warmth that made others feel comfortable and understood. He will be remembered for his beautiful smile, long hair, and piercing blue eyes.
Sterling formerly worked at the Kenosha Humane Society, where his love for animals was evident. For the past two and half years as a security guard for GardaWorld.
Sterling had many different passions throughout his life. As a child, he loved Thomas the Tank Engine and trains, had an incredible knowledge of dinosaurs, and enjoyed playing Mario games, especially Mario Kart and Super Smash Bros., as well as building with Legos. As he grew older, he continued to enjoy Mario and gaming, developed a love for anime, and showed a true gift for drawing. He also had a deep love for animals, especially dogs, cats, wolves, foxes, and servals. He enjoyed spending time with friends, going on trips with family or friends, and most of all, being at home drawing and gaming with those closest to him.
Sterling's kindness and gentle nature had a way of making even the toughest days feel a little brighter. His presence will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.
He will be profoundly missed by his parents, Edward and Lanette (Fluck) Oliver; his brother, AJ (Austin) Oliver; his grandparents, Dan and Janet Fluck and Sandy Maennena; his aunts and uncles, Lori and Kirk Duffie, Aaron Maennena and Sabrina Adams, Heidi Maennena and family, John Maennena, and Amie and Jared Verba; and his cousins, Dani Williams, Hazel Kopera and family, Anastasia Mallek, Chloe Adams, and many other extended family members and friends.
As we come together to grieve, let us also remember the joy Sterling brought to our lives and the love he shared with everyone around him. His spirit will forever remain in our hearts.
Rest gently, dear Sterling. You are loved always and forever.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Sterling's honor may be made to the Kenosha Humane Society, 7811 60th Ave, Kenosha, WI 53142 https://www.wihumane.org/ or the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention through AJ's fraternity Lambda Chi Alpha https://afspwalks.donordrive.com/teams/388522. All other donations will be used to create a scholarship in Sterling's honor to support students who show a passion for the fine arts, especially drawing or band.
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Lanette OliverPosted on:
March 29, 2026I still can't believe you are gone my dear, sweet, loving, child. Every single day I wish your bedroom door would open and we could chat or for your "What's for dinner" text. My heart has shattered into a million pieces and I just want you back! Love you always and forever!
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Justin WheelerPosted on:
March 28, 2026I was a student at Lakeview and a member of the Harborside band and Band of the Blackwatch. I sat directly next to Sterling for three years in band, I was a Saxophone and he of course played the French Horn. I really loved talking to Sterling, we got yelled at a ton of times for looking at memes on our phones during band, and generally making a ruckus. He was a genuine soul and a good friend.
My condolences to all of his loved ones. He will be dearly missed.
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Franks familyPosted on:
March 27, 2026Dear Oliver family - May Viviana's soul rest in peace. The Franks family
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TabithaPosted on:
March 27, 2026So sorry for the loss of such a wonderful person. Sterling and I met at Safe Harbor. I was always delighted when he was scheduled to work. He had such a calming presence and really took pride in the work he did there. He was unlike anyone I've ever met. His sense of humor was so unique and he really made a huge difference in so many animals and coworkers lives. He was patient and gentle with the fearful and feisty cats and gave special attention to each and every animal he encountered.
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Krystal TorresPosted on:
March 27, 2026I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you and your family. There are no words that can ease this pain, but please know I am here for you whatever you need. Sending you so much love during this incredibly difficult time. 🤍
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Dinia SepePosted on:
March 26, 2026My deepest condolence to Lanette and family. May you find comfort at this very sad and difficult time.
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March 26, 2026I am so sorry for the loss of Viviana. She helped me a lot in the past and left us too early. We will all miss her.
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Art VillarrealPosted on:
March 25, 2026Oliver Family so so sorry for your loss
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Whipple R IbanezPosted on:
March 24, 2026The Oliver Family,
I am very saddened by the untimely passing of your son Sterling Brett. Please accept my deepest sympathy. May he rest in peace.
With prayers, Whipple R Ibanez
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DeAnna ElliottPosted on:
March 24, 2026I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Know that I am keeping you and your family in my prayers. Nothing can be harder than losing a child. Together you and your family will keep him in your hearts.
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March 24, 2026Thank you for always listening to me when my life got rough and for always offering to help. I will always remember you, alongside everyone else that you were dear to. I hope I'll get to meet you again someday.
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March 23, 2026Sending love and prayers for the family, especially for our neighbors, Dan and Janet. May your souls be at peace. 🙏❤️
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Kristi KoschkeePosted on:
March 23, 2026I was blessed to have been Oliver’s teacher at Lakeview. He was such a kind young man and my prayers go out to his family. We are all better for having had him in our lives.
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Dawn DemoPosted on:
March 23, 2026Sending love and sincere sympathy to all who knew and loved him. Wishing your family comfort, strength, and peace in the days ahead.
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Lavonne SimpsonPosted on:
March 23, 2026I am soo sorry to hear about the loss of a child, sending prayers to your family🙏🙏
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Lia AniogPosted on:
March 23, 2026My deepest condolences to your family, I pray that Sterling finds peace as well as your family. God bless you
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Dina CruzPosted on:
March 23, 2026Sending prayers and hugs to all the family of Sterling. May he rest in peace and may the family find comfort in all the good times. Dina (Granger) Cruz
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Joyce CookPosted on:
March 23, 2026Sending hugs and prayers to your family!!!
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David PetersmarkPosted on:
March 23, 2026So very sorry for your loss may God and Family help you through this very painful and difficult time 🙏🙏🙏
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Myles Williams - General Manager (GardaWorld Security Services)Posted on:
March 23, 2026Sterling was a great Ambassador for GardaWorld and left a great impression on anyone that had the pleasure of meeting him. I hired him directly back in November of 2023 and I can confidently say he was one of my best hires. He is missed by several of his coworkers and hearing of his passing saddened me deeply. I personally send my deepest condolences to his family and friends.
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Nancy A RaePosted on:
March 23, 2026Deeply saddened over the loss of such a beautiful person. God’s peace be with all of you. (UMCA)
